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The Adventure of the Clockwork City

Once upon a time, in a city that ticked and tocked with the sound of hundreds of clocks, there lived a young inventor named Lila. Lila was a girl who always wanted to know what was going to happen next. She wished she were as patient as her grandfather, who had lived in Clockwork City for more than sixty years. He had fixed clocks since he was a boy, and he always knew how to solve any problem.

One morning, Lila woke up and realized the city’s biggest clock, which stood in the center square, had stopped. “I wish I could fix it myself,” she said, looking up at the huge gears and golden hands. “If I fix the clock, everyone will be so proud.”

Her friend Max, who was going to help her, said, “You shouldn’t try to climb up there alone. You must ask for help.” Lila nodded. “Do you know who can lend us a ladder?” she asked. “Could you tell me where the tallest ladder is kept?” Max replied, “I think the firefighters will lend us one. They have helped people for years.”

Lila and Max hurried to the fire station, where they met Captain Ada, who had worked there since she was a teenager. “Would you mind carrying this toolbox?” Ada asked Max. “Of course, I will pick it up and bring it with us,” he replied.

When they reached the square, Lila looked at the clock tower and got nervous. “I wish I were braver,” she whispered. Ada smiled, “You don’t have to be the bravest person to do something important. You just have to try.” Lila nodded and started to climb.

As she climbed, the wind began to get stronger. “You must hold on tightly!” shouted Max. “You had better not look down!” Lila kept going, even though her hands were starting to get tired. When she reached the top, she saw a little bird who had built a nest inside the clock. “You shouldn’t be here, little bird,” she said gently. “If you stay, you will get scared when the gears start moving again.”

Lila carefully moved the nest to a safe place. “I wish I had wings like you,” she joked to the bird, “so I could fly down instead of climbing!” She got to work, using the tools that Ada had given her. She had fixed small clocks since she was a child, but she had never tried to repair something so big.

Suddenly, she dropped a wrench. “Oh no! I’m sorry, Ada. I will pick it up as soon as I get down.” Ada called up, “Don’t worry! We will pick it up together.”

As Lila worked, she remembered what her grandfather had taught her: “If you listen to the ticking, you will know what’s wrong.” She listened carefully and found a gear that was stuck. She used oil to loosen it, and soon the clock began to move again. The hands started to turn, and the bells rang out across the city.

Everyone cheered! The mayor, who had watched from the crowd, said, “Lila, you must come to City Hall and tell us how you fixed the clock. We have waited for hours since it stopped.” Lila blushed. “I have dreamed of this moment for years,” she said.

After the celebration, Max asked, “What are you going to do next?” Lila smiled, “I’m going to build a clock that can tell the weather! If I invent it, I will help the whole city.” Ada said, “You should rest for now. You have worked hard all day.”

The next morning, Lila woke up and saw the sun shining. She thought, “If today is as beautiful as yesterday, I will just spend the whole day outside.” She got dressed and ran to the park, where she met her friend who always had new ideas. “Do you know what time the festival starts?” Lila asked. “Could you tell me where the best place to watch the parade is?” her friend replied.

They spent the day playing games, picking up leaves, and helping the younger children who needed help with their kites. Lila was happy, but she still wished she could invent something new every day.

That evening, as the sun set over Clockwork City, Lila looked at the great clock tower and thought about all she had learned. She knew she would probably get tired sometimes, and she might get worried about new problems. But she also knew that if she worked hard, asked for help, and believed in herself, she would always find a way to fix what was broken.

And so, in the city where every second counted, Lila and her friends learned that the future is full of possibilities—if you are brave enough to turn the gears.


Key Structures Used:

  • I wish / wishes: I wish I could fix it, I wish I were braver, I wish I had wings, She wished she were as patient as...
  • Future with be going to / will: What are you going to do? I’m going to build..., I will pick it up, If you fix the clock, everyone will be proud, I will just spend the day...
  • Modals for necessity and suggestion: You must ask for help, You should rest, You have to try, You had better not look down, You don’t have to be the bravest, You must come to City Hall, You shouldn’t try to climb alone
  • Relative clauses: who had lived in Clockwork City, which stood in the center, that was stuck, where the best place is, who can lend us a ladder
  • If-clauses: If you get lost, I will find you, If you listen, you will know what’s wrong, If today is beautiful, I will just spend the day outside, If you stay, you will get scared
  • Indirect questions: Do you know who can lend us a ladder? Could you tell me where the ladder is? Do you know what time the festival starts?
  • Present perfect with since/for: He has fixed clocks since he was a boy, Ada had worked there since she was a teenager, We have waited for hours since it stopped, I have dreamed of this moment for years
  • Phrasal verbs: pick up, get down, hold on, look down, get tired, get worried, turn the gears, spend the day, run to, help with, build up
  • Requests and polite responses: Would you mind carrying this toolbox? Could you tell me...? Please, pick up the leaves, All right, I will put it away
  • Get + adjective: get tired, get worried, get nervous, get scared, get dressed, get down, get up, get braver
  • Excuses with will and phrasal verbs: I’m sorry, I will pick it up as soon as I get down

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